Your mind is like a parachute, It doesn't work if it's not open.

We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorns have roses. You decide.

The worst battles we have to fight are between what we know and what we feel.

Sometimes the most important lessons, are the ones we end up learning the hard way.


Monday, January 14, 2013

Revolutionary War Essay



“It was a new world.” They said. “It’s a new start.” They claimed. “It’s a chance to do things on our own.” They said. It wasn’t. It was dark and cold and there was nothing. No homes, no schools, no businesses, no towns… nothing. It was a time where people turned against each other, and a time where people stood together. It was a time where sometimes you couldn’t tell left from right, and up from down. It was a time where you were either for “your” king or against him, and it was time to choose a side.  Patriots and Rebels were together, in one town, but stood at two completely opposite ends. Patriots were for the “king” and thought if you stood against him it was treason. Rebels were against the king and thought that his rules of taxation without representation where unfair, and that they came to America to start their new life, and that the king was taking that away from them. Jane was of royal descent, coming to America on a boat with her caretaker at her side. She was a loyal Patriot but sometimes standing for what you know and standing for what is right is a hard decision for a fourteen year old to make. Benjamin was a rebel, a widowed father of seven, and standing up for what he believes is right. This “new world” the people were speaking of, they were standing in it, but it wasn’t what they had all dreamed it would be. So why do two totally different people have so much in common? Is it because they are both standing for what is right? Is it because they both know that sometimes the right thing to do can hurt many people? Or is it because they both have lost a lot of things that someone should never have to lose. Her parents, his wife. Her finance, his sons. Her caretaker, his “help.”

Sometimes though standing alone is your best chance of surviving. Even though it may not be the thing you want to do, it’s the thing you have to do. Jane lost a lot before coming to America, for a new life with her aunt and uncle. Her dad had just died a couple of months before, and her mother died when she was a little kid. A new orphaned child, her caretaker Mrs. Morley was all she had left. She was going to the new world to live with her aunt and uncle; her dads brother. She was excited about the whole thing, not knowing about all the problems it could in tale.  Losing her parents was one of the hardest things she had to go through. On the other had Benjamin lost his wife a few months earlier as well. He was having a hard time raising his seven kids on his own. With no mother his youngest daughter wasn’t talking. His sons were trying to stay strong for their sisters. But with no mother in your life it is kind of hard to do so. Even though they both lost pretty significant people in their lives, you would think it could only get better from there. But for Jane and Benjamin that wasn’t the case, from here it was only going to get worse.

No one was expecting what was coming next, for both of them it wasn’t something they would want to face… ever. Have you ever thought what it would be like to lose your kids? What about your finance? They were supposed to grow up and live a happy life, you were supposed to spend the rest of your life with them. Now where do you turn? What do you do next? I wouldn’t know which way to turn. Well Jane lost her finance from internal bleeding that couldn’t be stopped. She was crying and didn’t know whether to run away or yell, or scream. She handled it a lot better than most people could. Benjamin on the other hand  lost two of his sons.  They wanted to go to war and fight and help take a stand for what they thought, was right. But Benjamin wouldn’t have anything to do with it. Gabriel the oldest son, signed up for the army without his father’s permission. While in the army his dad was at home with his six younger siblings. He got stabbed. His brother was shot, and his dad didn’t know what to do once they both died. Would you? Most people wouldn’t know what to do. Do you run, do you yell, do you scream. Neither of them knew what to do, it was too much of a shock to be able to do anything about it. They both handled it a lot better than I think anyone ever thought they were going to. But loosing something that big in your life wasn’t something they ever wanted to happen.

As things started to look a little bit better. Benjamin’s caretakers and the people who help around the house were taken away from him. Jane’s caretaker Mrs. Morley went to live with her aunt’s elderly mother. Benjamin went to war, for revenge. So his kids went to live with their aunt. They were scared, and didn’t want to go. But they had no choice. He was scared too. But he knew they were in good hands now. Jane on the other hand didn’t know what to think about Mrs. Morley leaving. She hadn’t left Jane’s side since her mother passed away. Jane knew that it was time to do things on her own, and also knew that her aunt’s mother could really use someone to talk to. But Jane wasn’t ready to let go yet. Loosing so much, without getting anything in return, she didn’t like. But knowing that they would both be better off apart than together she was able to let go. Jane and Benjamin both knew exactly what to do, but they were both not ready to admit it was over, as much as they knew they had to.

“It was a new world.” They claimed. But it really wasn’t. Jane and Benjamin knew that. But other people in that town did not. They had lost so much, to know that what was happening, was not fair. They took stands for what they knew was right, whether if it was for revenge, or because they wanted to make their own decision. Sometimes letting go of everything and taking a stand for what is right, can help you. But sometimes it will stab you in the back, literally.